In the wake of the devastating Fourth of July floods in Texas Hill Country—where families faced unimaginable loss—our hearts are especially heavy. Grief, when it hits so suddenly and deeply, can leave people feeling isolated and overwhelmed.

Many of us are left wondering: What can I possibly do to help?

At Le Wren, we believe that showing up in love—even in small ways—can create powerful moments of comfort. Whether your loved one is navigating a recent tragedy or living through the long arc of loss, here are five meaningful ways to support a grieving family with compassion, care, and presence.

 

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1. Show Up in Small, Consistent Ways

Grief doesn’t follow a timeline. While the initial outpouring of support often comes right after a loss, the weeks and months that follow can feel incredibly lonely. A simple text, a handwritten note, or even dropping off coffee can remind them they are still held in love. It’s not about the perfect words—it’s about your presence.

 

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2. Offer Practical Help (Without Them Asking)

When families are overwhelmed with grief, daily tasks can feel impossible. Instead of saying, “Let me know if you need anything,” try offering something specific:

• “I’m bringing dinner Tuesday night—do you prefer pasta or soup?”
  
  

• “Can I take the kids for the afternoon?”
  
  

• “I’m heading to the store—what can I pick up for you?”
  
  

These acts of service ease the mental load and offer real relief.

 

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3. Send a Thoughtful Care Package

Gifts won’t take away the pain, but they can create moments of softness and support. A well-curated grief care package—filled with comforting items like herbal teas, cozy socks, soothing skincare, and a journal—can be a gentle way to say: I see you. I’m here.

(That’s exactly why we created our Sympathy Care Package —to offer beauty, comfort, and quiet companionship during life’s hardest seasons.)

 

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4. Honor Their Loss

Say their loved one’s name. Share a memory. Acknowledge milestones like birthdays, anniversaries, or holidays that may now feel tender or painful. Grief is a sign of love, and remembering honors that love in the most sacred way.

 

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5. Give Them Permission to Feel It All

There is no “right” way to grieve. Let them cry. Let them laugh. Let them not respond to your text for a week. Remind them that whatever they’re feeling is valid—and that they don’t have to rush toward healing. You’re simply there, walking beside them, however long it takes.

 

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Supporting a grieving family doesn’t require grand gestures—it just requires your heart and presence.

At Le Wren, we’re here to help you care in a way that’s thoughtful, beautiful, and deeply human.

Explore our curated collection of grief gifts or reach out if you’re not sure where to start. We’re here to help you show up with love.